Drop Sixty-Eight

1 John 4:18

”There is no room in love for fear. Well-formed love banishes fear. Since fear is crippling, a fearful life – fear of death, fear of judgment – is on not yet fully formed in love” (MSG).

I have a perpetual calendar at work that was a prize for playing BINGO at church. The above verse was the one for yesterday. Although the Bible I typically reference is the NASB1995, the Message Bible translation speaks volumes to me. Most of my life, I have lived as a “people-pleaser” – a  virtual chameleon as I feared rejection more than anything. This is not a good way to live. Fear of rejection/judgement is crippling – I could not think straight or do anything if I believed I had offended anyone or hurt anyone in any way. Often, I remained silent. Often, I chose not to form any opinions. How can one stand firm in the Lord and fear the rejection of others? Oh, the walls of protection I built are tumbling down and it is okay. I am a child of God. “In God I have put my trust, I shall not be afraid. What can man do to me?” (Psalms 56:11, NASB1995).

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for loving us. Thank You for choosing to teach us what love means and expect us to share Your love with others. Thank You for forgiving us when we fail and helping us begin again. As we enter this Thanksgiving week, may we truly be grateful for You and all You have given to us. May we see others through Your eyes and lavish grace upon them as You have done for us.

In Jesus’ name,

AMEN